Calm first. Clarity next. Better choices. Stronger relationships.
Hi, I am so glad you found me!
I am Beatriz Lloret, Couples Therapist and Attachment Specialist
I have spent more than twenty years with clients in the room. This work is my passion and my gift, and I am deeply grateful for that. I still tear up when a reach lands and two people feel connected to each other again.
My honest story matters here. While many relationships were healing in my office, my own marriage ended. The shame was real. The resolve was too - and it fueled my study and practice. I discovered that I lived with anxious attachment. With the right support, I learned to receive safety and began to build secure attachment inside myself. Slow. Steady. Real. My personal experience informs my work, both in couples therapy and on my Healing Anxious Attachment program - I offer authentic empathy and clarity on the path of healing.
The roots of my work
I practice EFT - Emotionally Focused Therapy, an experiential and research supported model endorsed by the American Psychological Association. We create new emotional experiences so the bond can heal at the attachment level. I also hold advanced training in the Gottman Method Level 3, neurobiology, and Internal Family Systems (IFS).
Integrating my personal and professional experiences I tailored the Healing Anxious Attachment program.
Because sometimes extra support is what makes it click. With clarity and practice you can ask clearly, receive contact, and feel steady without chasing. I know the journey and I’m here to help you.
Your individual or couples therapist remains the lead. My work is the bridge.
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HEALING ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT PROGRAM
What to expect when working with me
✓ A steady guide who holds
hope and next steps.
✓ Experiential work, accepting and compassionate presence.
✓ Pacing that respects your nervous system.
✓ You will learn the power of repair.
Next step
Book a consult. We will map what is happening, what you want instead, and the clearest way forward.
What is Anxious Attachment?
In anxious attachment, marriage can feel like a tug between love and worry.
You want closeness. And even on good days there is a quiet hum underneath:
Are you there for me? Do you really love me? Am I a priority?
You might overthink their words, texts, expressions, actions - or lack of actions, read tone, put their needs above yours and feel resentment growing inside you. You get tense when your partner seems distant or disconnected. Your body moves fast. Heart up. Thoughts racing. A rush to fix. You reach out, talk more, explain more, even criticize. Not to fight. You are trying to feel safe. I understand you on a personal level, since I lived with anxious attachment and can help you on a professional level. I offer a tailored program, based on my experience of healing combined with years of clinical practice and studies.
You are not “too emotional.” Your nervous system learned early that love could be unpredictable, so it scans for danger to protect you.
With the right support and practice, you can feel secure in love without chasing it. You can feel connected without fear. You can stay calm even when your partner is not available to you.
Calm first. Clarity next. Then Connection.
One steady rep at a time.
I am a trainer, consultant, and speaker on Attachment for therapists and mental health teams.
Credentials
Advanced Psychology Degree, Brazil
Master’s in Marriage and Family Therapy, SHSU
Advanced training in EFT - Emotionally Focused Therapy, ICCEFT
Gottman Method (Level 3), Gottman Institute
Additional trainings and studies in Internal Family Systems (IFS) and Neurobiology to deliver top-tier care
